How To Date The Woman Of Your Dreams Fast

Raymond Ovietare
4 min readNov 20, 2020

How would you feel if you just stepped out of your home as a single man or lady and just a few blocks away, stumbled into the man or woman of your dreams?

In today’s world anything is possible!

All you have to do is to be at the right place at the right time, saying the right words.

Here are some tips that could get you a new date today.

1. SMILE

Everybody loves a great smile. It breaks down mental or emotional barriers. It engenders a sense of acceptance and a good feeling about life. A smile relaxes the tension that comes between two strangers who are meeting themselves for the first time.

When you smile, you communicate with the soul of your potential date. It forms a great bridge to grow your communication and start a relationship.

In smiling, all your facial organs or features should be active participants. In other words, when you smile, let your eyes smile; your mouth smile, your nose smile and your face smile Infuse your smile into your breath.

2. PROJECT LOVE THROUGH YOUR EYES

You cannot be attractive to your mate if you don’t have mastery over your eye gaze.

A man, whose eyes wander around when communicating with a proposed date shows he lacks self-confidence. It is nice to keep eye contact with your woman. Let your eyes speak volumes about your love and respect for your proposed date.

The eyes are the windows of the soul. Communicate your affection or interest for her through your eye contact. Let your eyes smile. Lest I forget, you are not a hypnotist. You are a potential lover.

If she feels a bit uncomfortable with your gaze, you can take your eyes off her for a few seconds and return your gaze of love. Women love attention. They love to be adored.

Let your eyes speak volumes of how you feel about her. It will touch her soul and turn on, her love switch in return.

3. USE YOUR TOUCH AS A LOVE ANCHOR

Every woman loves to be touched. But, it must be done when they desire it. Touching a prospective date inappropriately may mar the future of the relationship.

The best place to touch a new date is her hands. Your touch must align with your words of communication. Your touch should serve as an anchor point, to emphasize an important information that buttresses your love for her.

Don’t touch her when she feels stressed or unhappy. You don’t want to associate your touch with stress or tears. Touch her when she is happy and inspired. Touch her when she is concentrating on you.

But, make sure you verbally express your love as you touch her. Let your touch breed kindness, love, respect, trust and hope in her heart. Let it bring a sense of security. Touch her for love not for lust.

Touch her for care not for fear. Make your touches rare but special. Build an anchor of your love for her in your soul.

4. MAKE YOURSELF AVAILABLE TO YOUR PARTNER

Acting like a macho man won’t make you a woman magnet. You can’t live in a cave and expect your dream woman to beat her path to your door step. You must go out and find her.

Every single woman desires one form of assistance or the other. She may be looking for someone to mow her lawn or do some quick shopping for her. She may even be looking for a partner to go to the movies with.

Ask if there is anything she would want you to do for her. If you persist with your asking, she will find something for you to do for her. Don’t make yourself a liability. Just be available.

You can make yourself available in her heart by sending her inspiring love notes. It really loosens up the love knots in a woman’s heart. Buy her simple and inspiring inexpensive gifts, from time to time. You will be making yourself available to her in diverse ways.

You can also encourage her to talk about herself. She will feel good knowing that she can always rely on you to listen to her as she shares her secrets with you.

5. GO SHOPPING Women love shopping. You can find a new date if you go shopping. You are likely to find a single woman who needs a helping hand from you.

Keep your eyes open when you go shopping. A kind thought, word, action or just a “hello” , can turn out to be the master key that will open the door to a long lasting relationship.

6. BELIEVE IN YOURSELF

Women are easily attracted to men who exude self-confidence. Being self-confident means you know what your strengths are and you are consciously aware of what to do at any given situation. It is not pride.

You can easily get dates if you potray yourself as being in control of things. Believe in yourself and your date will believe in you. 7. READ AND ATTRACT YOUR WOMAN

Women are wonderful human beings that need to be studied if you are really serious about attracting them. You need to take off time to learn about their general likes and dislikes. You need to understand what turns them on and what puts them off.

I would encourage you to lay hands on a few books that would empower you to attract women into your easily.

You can find one of my favorites, here.

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